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Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family

Parenting is not a clean-cut, simple process for those who like to follow the rules. Family life is messy and unpredictable, but it is the greatest adventure you will ever have. We are Mike and Alicia Hernon, parents of 10 children ranging from 10 to 27 and we would like to invite you into some of the conversations we have had with each other about marriage, parenting, and Catholic family life. Our hope is that our conversation sparks a dialogue between you and your spouse that leads to greater unity and intentional Christian parenting in your home. Listen in to our podcast and start the conversation as we seek to lead our families to heaven. Visit us at https:///www/MessyFamilyProject.org for resources, guides, links and show notes.
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Now displaying: February, 2023
Feb 27, 2023

Children have not been given to parents as a present, but as a trust for which, if lost through their negligence, they must render an account to God. ~ St. Alphonsus Ligouri

 

Raising teens is an art, not a science.  It takes finesse, subtleties, and nuances to get it right. Children are pushing back and trying to become independent adults while they are still not yet ready for the responsibilities of adulthood.  How do you slowly give them more freedom while making sure you don’t give them TOO much?  In this episode, we interview Bill and Tanis Merimee, parents of 9 children and founders of the ministry Marriages of Grace.  Bill and Tanis have a unique perspective also because they are both musicians and have children who are particularly artistic.  Teens who are artistic have special challenges and needs because they have a great gift to give the world - their art!  How can parents nurture this artistic temperament while avoiding the pitfalls that can come with the godless culture that is growing in the art world.  Listen in and join the conversation!   



Interested in Cana90 for your parish or yourself - https://messyfamilyproject.org/cana90 

 

Moms and Dads Courses- https://messyfamilyhood.com/ 

 

For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/

 

View the episode here - https://youtu.be/eRnjftj7r5w

 

Feb 22, 2023

Each day be conscious of your duty to be a saint. — A saint! And that doesn’t mean doing strange things. It means a daily struggle in the interior life and in heroically fulfilling your duty right through to the end. ~ St. Jose Maria Escriva

 

One of the things we teach couples all the time is that marriage and family life is your path to holiness.  So the celebration of Lent and Easter should look different if you are a married person!  Sacrifices and commitments that take away from your vocation should be avoided because the first step in discerning anything is to consider your state in life. This means that you and I can become holy by not just having an hour of adoration, but also by playing with our toddlers!  Or taking your teen out to coffee, or having a weekly date night with your spouse. Catholics need to explore more of what it means to be a saint in our homes.  Listen in to this webinar we did on the Monday before Ash Wednesday to explain our Cana90 program for couples and families. 

Interested in Cana90 for your parish or yourself - https://messyfamilyproject.org/cana90 

 

Moms, Dads, and Family Board Meeting Courses- https://messyfamilyhood.com/ 

 

For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/

 

View the episode here - https://youtu.be/9XXXCgvrRgI 

Feb 13, 2023

“When she’s in your company, your daughter tries harder to excel. When you teach her, she learns more rapidly. When you guide her, she gains confidence. If you fully understood just how profoundly you can influence your daughter's life, you would beoverwhelmed, or both.” ― Dr. Meg Meeker

All girls have a certain pattern of physical development that will change them into women, but these changes need to be guided, nurtured, and shaped by loving parents.  The genius of womanhood is a great gift to the world and parents are the ones who help a girl realize this gift. We did this podcast to help all parents encourage the feminine qualities within their daughters.  Not stereotypes, but honest, strong, and true womanhood.  Listen in as we give some insights, inspiration, and practical advice.  

Read more on masculinity and femininity - https://messyfamilyproject.org/resources/gender-differences-taking-the-risk

Interested in Cana90 for your parish or yourself - https://messyfamilyproject.org/cana90 

Moms and Dads Courses- https://messyfamilyhood.com/ 
 
For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/

View the episode here - https://youtu.be/Al0Wlyat9iI

Feb 3, 2023

Manhood isn’t something that simply happens to boys as they get older. It’s an achievement – something a boy accomplishes, something that can easily go awry. If we ignore the importance of this transition, and fail in our duty as parents to guide boys through it, then we will learn the hard way why traditional cultures invest this transition with so much importance. - Dr Leonard Sax

In today’s world we cannot assume that all boys will grow up to be masculine men.  But this is the task of every parent of a boy!  Parents need to recognize that boys need to be guided on the road to manhood.  It doesn’t just happen all by itself.  To give this guidance well, parents need to first realize that boys and girls have been created with different gifts.  Though a truly balanced man finds within himself both masculine and feminine qualities, parents need to start with encouraging a boy’s strengths, his masculine qualities.  Listen into this conversation as we discuss how parents can take an active role in encouraging masculinity in their sons.  

 

Read more on masculinity and femininity - https://messyfamilyproject.org/resources/gender-differences-taking-the-risk

Interested in Cana90 for your parish or yourself - https://messyfamilyproject.org/cana90 

Moms and Dads Courses- https://messyfamilyhood.com/ 

 For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/

 View the episode here - https://youtu.be/yFwQIagpisg 



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